Doing sex professionally is love

A young man was heartbroken and his girlfriend found someone better. He cried after drinking: “I treated her so well and served her so comfortably in bed, but she still did that…”
Another boy, when confessing how much he loved his girlfriend, also said confidently: “Look, we have only been to a hourly room 9 times together, and we have done it 20 times! If I didn’t love, would I still work so hard?”
Men often take it for granted that they use the number of sex and the sexual excitement index to prove how much they love each other. This is not without reason. Men do have sex desperately because of love. However, sex often makes women not too sure, thinking that it is a superficial thing and a way to vent. In fact, it is also a way for men to express their emotions. Imagine if he is sweet-mouthed and “talks but does nothing”, you will definitely be anxious.
Sex can settle and deal with a person, but it is also easy to make people suspicious. Because we habitually think that sex is low-end, you can have sex if you love, and you can have sex if you don’t love, so you will be skeptical about sex.
Therefore, two people who have sex like to quarrel. The woman is subconsciously looking for faults to test and examine whether he loves her or just sex: the man does not understand and thinks that he has not satisfied her with sex, so he redoubles his efforts and “works hard”, which makes the woman feel more insecure. She thinks that this is the only trick he has, so she continues to find faults and strives to quarrel, forming a “two-sex” cycle. If the problem is not sorted out, it will get deeper and deeper, and misunderstandings will accumulate into resentment.
For example, the man begins to be impatient and thinks that the other half is unreasonable and unreasonable.
But the woman says, “What do you mean, is this flirting?”
Continue to misunderstand each other, and then the man continues to rely on sexual offensives and goes all the way. But women will hate and fear sex more and more when they don’t have a sense of security. Things that are too comfortable and pleasurable can easily make people feel a sense of crisis. The reason why the emperor is suspicious is because being an emperor is too cool.
What should I do? Obviously my sex is love, gentle and innocent, heaven and earth can testify, why does she not buy it? In fact, the key is to remember that when you give people “pleasure”, you should also give them a sense of security, so that sex is professional.

The sense of security is a feeling. Xu Zhian gives people a very down-to-earth feeling, and Chen Xiaochun gives me a very hesitant feeling, but the latter is at ease to get married, while the former is still waiting. So the feeling is very vague. In other words, there is something to be done about the sense of security.

Of course, the sacred mission of creating a sense of security is for men to do. The way to eliminate women’s doubts is very simple, that is, to add more “prefixes” and “suffixes” to sex, such as kissing, conscientiously, diligently, and with relish, so that people are happy and feel that you love, love to the point of wanting to “eat”, “eating” is the simplest signal of love, if you keep swallowing, she will be more assured and feel that you love her “fully”, accept her, and swallow her.
The ending is also simple: Don’t rush to turn over and retreat after the climax, continue to linger, be reluctant to leave, and hug tightly, so that she will feel that your love is not utilitarian, and you still take care of her and cherish her even when the “refractory period” is so difficult and so devastating, and then she will completely let go of her worries. The so-called consideration means that the body still needs such “caring” after the climax.
Remember, the best way to let go is to let go. If you let go of your heart, what flowers can’t bloom?
If you let go of your heart, you can let go of your hands at will, and then a virtuous “sex” cycle will be formed.
Sex is the icing on the cake. Don’t give people the feeling that you only have sex in your eyes from the beginning, which will easily give people the illusion of taking advantage of the situation. Men are “gun barrels” of love, but the premise is that you have to be full of love in your mouth, face, and body.