Being the best “scorer” of sexual happiness

As long as the wife spends some time and makes full use of the sexual body language between husband and wife, conveys to her husband and arouses his sexual desire silently, the lost sexual happiness will be regained, and the relationship will naturally be sublimated.

My husband and I are both romantic people. When we first got married, our married life was harmonious and happy. But as time went by, my husband was tired of dealing with many matters related to the workplace, and he became lazy after returning home exhausted. Sometimes I woke my husband up in the middle of the night, but I was discouraged when I saw his “sexual” tastelessness.

It’s not easy for my husband to say “I want you”, which makes me very depressed. But no matter how depressed I am, I can’t help my husband “not being sexual”. Sometimes, from the jokes between girlfriends, I can hear that their sex life with their husbands seems to be full of variety and full of fun. When I got home, I also wanted to try it, but my husband, who always complained of being tired, was very uncooperative. I bought some books and studied them carefully, hoping to find some methods to guide my husband to “be sexually interested”. However, I learned every step from foreplay to afterplay, but I was unable to use my skills. Because no matter how I teased, my husband was always unmoved. He said that before I started, he knew everything about what I wanted to do and how to do it. Often, the more I expected, the more disappointed I became, and in the end, I couldn’t find any feeling.
Later, at a gathering with friends, when they were slightly drunk, a group of women talked freely and exchanged their feelings about married life. Although those drunken words were incoherent, I was very inspired after listening to them. Especially Xin’er’s summary speech, which gave me a sudden enlightenment. That night, Xin’er, who was drunk and had a rosy face, squinted her eyes and passed on her experience to the sisters present: “Based on my experience and that of my husband, I think that a wife is the best ‘scorer’ of sexual happiness. For a husband, his wife’s active and sincere care is his eternal spiritual support, and his wife’s tenderness is the best catalyst to ignite his passion. Generally speaking, it is the husband who provokes the battle of sex, but it is the wife who makes sex complete. Therefore, women should pay attention to the following three points: The first point is to praise your husband more and give him confidence. Many men seem to be strong on the outside, but they are actually fragile on the inside. Their careers are not going well outside, which is reflected in the disharmony in bed. Although a man’s performance in bed is not very good, his wife cannot be picky about him. This is because what a man can’t stand the most is his wife criticizing his sexual ability. Once this happens, it will leave a shadow on him and make the couple feel unhappy. Sexual life between men falls into a vicious circle: the more you fear failure, the easier it is to fail, so that men lose their dignity and turn to escape. The second point is that women dress up for the one who pleases them. Many wives think that after being married to their husbands for many years, they don’t need to dress up for their husbands, who are the ones who please them, nor do they need to please their husbands in appearance in order to deliberately satisfy their sexual needs. This idea is totally wrong. Wives also have the right to enjoy sex. If you don’t attract your husband with your charm and brew the fragrance of sex, how can you enjoy the sweetness of sex? The third point is to take the initiative in sex. When your husband is not very keen on sex, the wife might as well take the initiative. Your occasional initiative will bring joy and unspeakable sweetness to your husband. This is because, for those husbands who have lost their “sexual interest” due to life, the initiative of their wives is the best treatment. “Xin’er’s words attracted boos. But in the midst of the boos, I pondered Xin’er’s words carefully, and felt a sense of sudden enlightenment.
The next evening after get off work, I bought red wine and roses. After I put the roses in the pot, I went into the kitchen to work. A table of delicious dishes was quickly prepared. When my husband got home from get off work, he first smelled the roses, and then saw the dishes on the table. He was surprised and was about to cheer when he saw me, wearing sexy pajamas and full of fragrance, walking out of the bedroom. So, my husband looked at me for a long time with shining eyes. He wanted to say something but didn’t have time to say it, so he pulled me to the table. So, my husband put one hand on my waist and took the wine glass with the other hand, and toasted with me. When the wine was half drunk, my husband’s eyes began to blur…
Reading the desire in my husband’s eyes, I pulled my husband into the bathroom, put the bath water for him, helped him take off his clothes, and then gave him a charming smile and walked out of the bathroom. When I came to the bedroom, I put a brand new set of white pajamas on the bedside. After my husband came out of the bath, I took off his bathrobe and started to change his pajamas. When changing into pajamas, I deliberately touched his sensitive parts and helped my husband pull the “wrinkles” of his sensitive parts… Under my teasing, my husband finally couldn’t hold back. He growled and wrapped me under him…

After the storm, lying in my husband’s arms, I recalled Xin’er’s words and couldn’t help feeling a little proud. Xin’er said that a wife is the best “scorer” of sexual happiness, which is absolutely true. In life, many couples tend to slack off in sex, so that they lose the sweetness that should be between husband and wife.